Heirloom Bouquet
by rebeccaMpells
Never have so many owned so much as we do in the 21st century. Consumerism is spreading like a virulent disease infecting huge numbers of people. Far from fleeing and looking for an antidote it’s welcomed by many who seek to catch the bug and embrace it.
From where does our love affair with the inanimate come? The first objects were practical and necessary – clothes, tools and utensils and then excess commodities which could be traded in exchange for ‘foreign’ goods brought wealth and the ability to purchase more. But from earliest times we have evidence of purely decorative items such as jewellery and ornaments, artifacts which quickly became an indication of status or something cherished. Items became integrated and entwined in our personal history handed down from generation to generation, a familial wave passing through our lives.
Although many of us today continue to judge our success and that of others by what we own, abundance seems to have changed this relationship – things are replaced with an up to date version or simply because we have become bored and enjoy the fleeting satisfaction of acquiring the new. Many of us seek an identity – or perhaps seek to escape from ourselves – through the things we clutter our lives with. Barely grasped and with little time for emotional attachment, we no longer truly inhabit the gift of inheritance. Perhaps that is the way it should be, the inanimate remaining transient, pleasing one moment and forgotten the next.
However, there is a comfort in the familiar, in the multilayered existence of inheritance; a stabilizing, grounding sense of belonging which comes from things with which we grew up, the landmarks by which we navigated our early years. They are the threshold between our history and the present, between what has been, what is and what is yet to come. A kind of immortality we cannot ourselves achieve. Often they are not of much monetary worth, but offer the far greater value of connection.
In the above painting the jugs are from a collection of my mother’s, the string of pearls my grandmother’s and the oak cabinet on which they rest from my great grandparents home. By contrast, the flowers arranged in a mass produced vase offer a metaphor of contemporary ownership, admired for a short time before fading and being discarded to make way for the fresh.
“…a familial wave passing through our lives.”
A beautiful still life with metaphor
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Thank you 🙂
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What a lovely post. So beautifully written. There is a saying that goes something like this: keep whatever is beautiful, useful or meaningful. The rest is just clutter. I love your Heirloom Bouquet because it’s beautiful, useful and meaningful! 🙂
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Thank you for your lovely comment carol. I think I have a lot of clutter to sort out!
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Put it on the stove top and boil it down, Rebecca. Well done.
I like your painting, also.
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Thank you Bruce. I think the stove top pot is an heirloom in the making!
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I love the painting and the message! Happy Easter to you!!!
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Thank you – it’s lovely to get feedback on my painting. Happy Easter!
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I love the painting and also your message! Happy Easter to you!
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A beautiful painting and your message is so eloquent and so true.
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I’m pleased you enjoyed the message Linda and many thanks indeed for commenting on my painting 🙂
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Beautiful image and an excellent read. Janet
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Thank you Janet. I very much appreciate your comment. I really enjoy your work too.
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Consumerism is out of control, say the least. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights so eloquently, Rebecca. Beautiful painting.
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Thank you very much Amy. The painting is in readiness for an exhibition in the summer and inspired this post.
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what a wonderful, thoughtful post. following here too. 🙂
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Thank you Geraldine. I’m pleased you enjoyed it.
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Love your post and love your painting! Very good job! Also thanks for following my blog, i am going to follow yours as well. Thanks Again! 🙂
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Thank you! Your basket weaving is beautiful. I look forward to seeing more 🙂
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The painting is a beautiful family treasure. 🙂 Do you think anyone involved in creating the first cell phone envisioned a store on every corner and that most wouldn’t meet the owner’s satisfaction for more than 6-12 months? 🙂
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Thank you Judy. I think you have a point!
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