RHYMES&REASONS

Observations, Thoughts and Reflections on 21st Century Life

Category: Musings

Endings and Beginnings

COACH HOUSE HOLLYHOCKS by Rebecca Pells

As any artist will tell you, that most difficult part of the painting process is knowing when to stop. Seldom is there a ‘eureka’ moment, when you throw the brush aside and declare a piece finished. As in life, endings are not always easy to identify. Like seasons that, despite dates on the calendar to mark the equinox, have their own nebulous timeline, along which we can never really be certain when we cross the threshold from winter to spring or from night to day. Some endings we resist, like that of a good book or a joyous holiday, others we fear like the passing of youth or a relationship that has slid from enriching to draining, ignoring the bell beckoning us leave.

Some endings are beyond our control, but many involve a decision based on instinct, or borne on a moment of clarity. Like the painting, we have to choose a moment to stop; whether that will prove to be the optimum one – would the painting have become a masterpiece if it had been worked on further, would the relationship have turned into a great love if we had stayed? – mostly we will never know.

So often, endings – welcomed or not – provide us with something we did not realise we needed; that, in time, we will understand why that ending needed to happen, how it ultimately proved a turning point in our life, however big or small. Maybe we can start to see endings as opportunities to be still, to reflect, to grow and ultimately step out on our onward journey with more insight and better vision for the path upon which we next embark.

As for my paintings, they will always remain suspended betwix the moment of inception and the moment the paint is allowed to settle and dry. Not until it leaves my studio on it’s way to a new home, will it’s birthing be complete and it’s onward journey begin. One such is COACH HOUSE HOLLYHOCKS, painted following a summer in France, where elegant spears soared skywards, to a backdrop of honey-coloured walls, while others arched gracefully, exhausted by searing heat and weighted with trumpets flushed with shades of pink. The painting, like the summer, is done, neither terminating in a pre-determined timeframe which can be neatly pinned to a particular day.

Perhaps there is an art to endings, literally if you are a creative, but also in negotiating life’s rhythms, it’s seasons and our life stages. Maybe, once we allow ourselves to exist in the space between the past and the future, to be in the quiet present, from where we can reflect, from where we can observe ourselves, we will see things more clearly. In painting, this is referred to as negative space – without the space between the items, between figures or pots, between stems and flowers, the painting would make no sense. It is this very space that provides the form, that offers the gift of clarity and presence of perspective. So, like the painting set aside in the corner of the studio, one day we may find that we are ready to notice it once more, to place it upon the easel, to view it in a new light and realise it’s time is not yet done, that it’s story is unfinished. Just maybe, some endings are not always the certitude we think; viewed anew, they are invitations to fresh perspectives and paths yet to be travelled.

COACH HOUSE HOLLYHOCKS has been shortlisted for the BRITISH CONTEMPORARY ART AWARD 2026. If it appeals to you, would you take a moment to vote for it? It appears towards the end of those listed, select it by clicking the round dot and enter your email further down. You will find the link under the image below. Many thanks in advance, Rebecca.

https://www.britishcontemporary.art/voting/

Layers

We live our life in layers. From the moment we are born until the day we die. Laid down with each and every turn of life, hiding and protecting from hurt and disappointment.

 

Winter arrives to cleanse the soul, to leaf through those layers in it’s own healing retreat.  Examine, observe, discard and put down the weights which held you back, inhibited, restrained, sapping your energy at every turn. Be tender as you discard and firm as you break the habitual patterns which no longer serve to enrich.  Wrap gently the folds of experience and wisdom the clothes of life to be carried with you on your onward journey.

 

Freeze out the remnants of a year lived, laying down the warp and weft of hope and expectation anew. Hide not your beauty but take the risk and allow the layers to melt away.  Search the depths, peel back the weather beaten layers one by one to uncover the long buried essence of your soul, exposed, vulnerable but revealed in all it’s unencumbered beauty.

‘Iced Rose’ Rebecca Pells Fine Art

. . . . and a peaceful New Year . . . .

Peace . . . is something we rarely experience.

Our daily lives don’t provide for peace.  We are surrounded by sound, from piped musak in shops and cafes, to advertisements which blare from screens large and small, to the discordant shrill of a lawn mower and toys which create more noise than the children who play.  An undeclared competition for our attention, it is a background stress we barely notice –  until we remove ourselves from it.  So accustomed are we that the mere thought of silence has become quiet dis-arming.

   Silence separates us from our daily lives and all with which we are familiar; it confronts and challenges us with the uncertain, allowing in thoughts and conversations with ourselves which we have previously conspired to keep at bay.  Quietness is the gateway to the unknown, initially a fearful place to be and just as an addict craves a fix, we look and long for distraction.  Our defense mechanism is to drown out the external commotion by immersing ourselves in a cacophony of our own choosing, a personal aural diet selected from an i-menu of endless options and drip fed through earphones barely visible.

Faced with exchanging sonance for silence even for an hour, many will experience the alarm of impending detoxification.  But as the edge of our discomfort starts to dissolve and abate, so we begin to allow ourselves to enjoy the settling quietness and embrace a sense of relief from the incessant clatter of everyday life.  To be silent is not to become still but to go about our tasks in full awareness and re-discover forgotten pleasures as other senses come alive and we begin to notice details previously shouted down.  Quietness is where we can hide: it is not the tortuous prison many fear but rather a release from a world where our sense of self is constantly diluted and homogenized.

To seek out peace once in a while from an exhaustive world, is to nurture and experience the joy of renewal and growth.  It is an act of independence, a bid for personal freedom and a place of privacy to be cherished and treasured .

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